I think one big concern when we first moved over was how well the kids would adjust and the impact of throwing them into the deep end. The younger your children are, the more seamless the move will most likely be.

However, for older kids, having to deal with moving countries, changing schools, and maybe even having to learn a new language can take a toll. Similar to the experience of an adult expat, children won’t be the only new classmates in most international schools. Nor will they be the only child not speaking their native language, so finding common ground with other kids will be relatively easy.

However, this does not guarantee an easy adjustment period. Having a child that is very homesick can be heartbreaking and make you question your decision to move. But one important thing to keep in mind is that change makes most kids resilient, and if you have made the move for your entire family’s happiness (parents included), this will prevail.

A few things that helped us:

1. Give it time, getting settled and finding your new routine takes time.
2. Find the benefits of your new home: the activities available, the climate and the new adventures.
3. Kids adapt easily but still talk to them about missing people they left behind and leaving your home country.
4. Do things together when possible! If you moved for a more balanced life and more family time, make the most of it and spend lots of time together when you can.
5. Find the hobbies they have, here! It’s a small island but most things are available, football, gymnastic, track and field…you name it!

One final upside to remember is; the adventure you go on as a family will build adaptable and resilient kids with language skills 🙂